Is It Rude to Not Send Thank You Cards?: The Complete Guide

Is It Rude to Not Send Thank You Cards?: The Complete Guide

Quick answer: For gifts received in person and thanked on the spot, a text is fine; for shipped gifts, wedding gifts and gestures from older relatives, a written thank-you card is still expected etiquette.

Short answer up top, details below - here is everything you need to know about is it rude to not send thank you cards.

When Written Thanks Are Expected

  • Wedding gifts: always, within three months
  • Baby showers: yes, before the baby arrives if possible
  • Shipped birthday gifts: yes - the giver never saw your reaction
  • Interviews: a short card or email within 24 hours
  • Everyday favors: a warm text is fine; a card elevates it

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